You’re in a grocery store. You see a man with a child. They’re clearly comfortable together. You
a. think he’s babysitting.
b. think he’s the dad and that this must be his hour, day or week to have the child.
c. think he’s the dad, period. It’s no big deal.
d. realize your answer depends on the race of the man and race of the child.
…yeah. Let’s talk about that.